Sleeping is essential: your body will demand it.
Recently, for the first time, I fell asleep while driving. It happened in a fraction of seconds, but enough to not see the light had turned red, and a car in front of me had stopped. Thank Goodness my automatic pilot still worked, and I had my foot on the brake, but I still got to touch the other’s rear. I felt the blow’s dull sound, and it was terrifying; it scared me a lot. The driver went out to check her car. I was apologizing while still recovering from the scare. There were no markings on any vehicles; the other driver seemed very calm; she looked at me compassionately and told me to take it easy; nothing happened.
That day was a vital lesson for my life; nothing is more important than better sleep.
Why do I share this testimony?
Because if you are going through this, I want you to know that you are not alone. But most importantly, there are remedies, mighty ones. These worked for me; they will work for you too.
14 Bedtime Rituals for Better Sleep
More than half of American adults say they regularly experience sleep problems, but you don’t have to be one of them. Before bed, the things you do can determine whether you toss and turn or get a good night’s sleep. Learn how to create bedtime rituals that will have you waking up every morning feeling refreshed and restored.
Bedtime Rituals for Your Body
- Turn down the lights. Exposure to sunlight causes your body to produce hormones that increase alertness, while darkness does the opposite. Turn off the TV and computer screens at least an hour before bedtime, and draw the shades.
- Slow down. Many individuals find that exercising late in the day disrupts their sleep. Devote your evenings to gentler activities, such as knitting or reading to your kids.
- Have a snack or treat. Certain foods and beverages promote sleep. Eat a light snack with protein and healthy carbohydrates, like an unsweetened whole-grain cereal with milk. Treat yourself to a cup of chamomile tea. Avoid caffeine and alcohol close to bedtime.
- Apply a fragrance. Lavender is an old remedy for insomnia. Keep a lavender plant on your nightstand. Sprinkle a few drops of lavender oil on a cotton ball and slip it inside your pillowcase. Vanilla has similar effects.
- Give yourself a massage. Indulge in a self-massage. Use one foot to rub the other. Soak your hands in warm water. Gently rub each finger from the base to the tip. Move your thumb in circles on the palm of the opposite hand.
- Warm-up. Raising your body temperature induces drowsiness. Take a hot bubble bath or slip underneath a heavy blanket.
- Get into position. Sleep positions can work for or against you. If lying on your stomach is causing back troubles, place yourself on your back as soon as you get into bed. It will gradually become automatic.
- Treat aches and pains. It’s hard to relax when your feet or shoulders are sore—cover achy areas with a heating pad or hot water bottle.
- Block out the noise. Intrusive noises are everywhere, from car alarms in the city to crickets in the country. Turn on a fan or listen to a white noise machine to help you block out the noise.
Bedtime Rituals for Your Mind
- Suspend daily concerns. What if you get to bed on time but lie awake worrying about your credit card bills or tomorrow’s meeting at work? Resolve to let go of distractions so you can sleep better.
- Meditate or pray. Meditation and prayer may be just what you need to guide your mind towards sleep. Relax and focus on virtuous thoughts.
- Engage in monotony. For some people, boredom is the preferred solution. Before getting into bed, organize your sock drawer or read through the manual that came with your car. If you’re still feeling wired, count sheep or recite multiplication tables to yourself.
- Play a lullaby. Music is so effective at putting babies to sleep that there’s a whole category of songs for this purpose. Music is an approach you can still use when you get older. You might like Mozart or soft jazz.
- Create a trigger. Our minds and bodies are closely connected. Any object or practice can make us tired if we learn to associate it with sleep. Put on a pair of soft flannel pajamas when you’re ready to retire for the night. Go ahead and hug your teddy bear.
Conclusions
Good quality sleep protects your mental and physical health and enables you to enjoy life. Rely on bedtime rituals that will help you doze off faster and stay asleep all night long.
Thank you for these great ritual advise. Just last week, I made a mistake of drinking coffee after dinner. And it was a leftover coffee from the afternoon which I just reheated it and not let it go to waste (perhaps not a good idea). And while I thought I can sleep easily regardless, which I had the belief I always do, I ended up staring blankly at darkness, mind racing. On the good side, it has helped me came up with some ideas for my work, but I was obviously not expecting this to happen. So failing to sleep, I ended up in my study room for the next 3 hours in the wee hours of the morning till I felt tired.
For me, ritual number 1 on your list to turn off the lights simply works for me most of the time.
Than you! Lucky you, if only turning off the lights is enough to fall asleep 🙂 I hope your coping strategy works, if not do not hesitate to contact me for more information.
thank you for giving this very essential information on sleeping rituals, although i have been able to involve myself in a few without even having this knowledge, but this article has clearly stated and fully explained the positive effect and partly the negative or danger of now sleeping well, am sure that as begin practicing all this ritual i will experience sleep in another dimension.
Great, Dan bello! I am happy this added a bit to your awareness about how sleeping habits impact our health. Please, keep coming back for more insights about other factors. Thanks!
Hello Dr. Angela!
I enjoyed reading this post although got a bit alarmed on your accident. It’s good nobody was harmed. Sleepiness while driving caused a lot of accidents here in our country, too.
Though I seldom have problem in getting quality sleep. Following those bedtime rituals won’t hurt. I want to try them.
Thank you, Rose! Yes, indeed, it was very alarming to me as well. I am thankful to God that no one was hurt, but I will not allow myself another experience like this.